Your internal monologue:
Are you arrogant about your performance? Your confidence can easily cross the line and turn into arrogance. It starts small, but sometimes it turns into a force that keeps you from listening to feedback, unbiassedly assessing another skater's skill, or just being a smirky little prick in your own mind. Yeah, I said prick. Once you start an arrogant monologue in your head, you're going to start acting on it; knock it off before you start making your team hate you.
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Your team's actions: Sometimes teams can come across as arrogant; back before derby hit its growth spurt, teams were very isolated from each other, mostly because of the distances between them. They turned inward and regarded anyone outside of the league as an enemy. Things are slowly changing, but some leagues still think their way is the only way, and all other leagues have nothing they can teach them. Not true! It's always great to have a different perspective on the game. If you just stick your head in the sand and only learn from your own league, you are limiting yourself. I seriously suggest getting outside training when you get the opportunity, visiting other league practices, and watching footage. You can learn from anyone, from the newest of newbies to the best jammer in the world. Approach derby as a learning experience instead of a superiority experience.
How you can stop it. Coaches! There is something very easy to do to stop the rise of arrogance in your team. You MUST intercede BEFORE there is an issue. Yes, you might have a super star skater on your team, but you need to remind the entire team that while that skater was destroying the jammer, the rest of the girls on the track were doing their jobs too. One great player does NOT a winning team make!
Let's not turn this sport into a "I'm more important and awesomer than you are contest." Every time I see arrogance rear its ugly head, I see a team dealing with drama. Nip that crap in the bud!